Wrong Guy

At one point in our life, we usually find ourselves on the wrong side of love, falling for the wrong person. You meet a guy, he’s all you’ve wanted in a person. He’s cute, he’s good and he knows how to treat you just right. You find yourself falling for this guy, but thew funny thing is that you don’t know anything about this guy so you try to hold back your feelings for him coz you don’t know if he’s even into you in the first place. The funny is that you still want to see him daily coz you feel; attached to him in some ways even you can’t explain. So, after a few weeks of hanging out, you decide to jokingly ask him if he has someone. You hope he says no. you hope there’s no one who can come on your way, but shock ion you, he’s actually seeing someone. That statement hurts to the core, but what are you going to do about it, after all don’t, they usually say that all the good boys are taken. That day you go home sad, you cry your eyes out, you keep checking your phone hoping to see a text from him but nothing. You decide to sleep. Next morning still no text from him, you text him telling him that you are done with him hoping that maybe he’ll beg you to stay but he doesn’t. this breaks you even more. You stay crying thinking about him.

Few weeks later, he texts you saying how’s he’s missed and he want to see you. This is what you have been waiting for so without hesitations, you agree to meet him up, at this point he starts taking advantage of your love for him. You meet up, have fun and once again you are happy, after a few days, he brings his girlfriend up and you have to take a step back again. Its like the cycles always repeats itself.

One day you decide enough is enough and you decide to end it all together coz you respect yourself and you realize that however much you try to please him he’s never going to leave his girl for you coz that’s where his heart is.

We can never force love and we can never choose who we fall in love with. The only thing that matters is your inner peace and you should always make yourself a priority. However much you love someone, always love yourself first coz nobody will do it for you.